Pastor Sam Bennett Devotional: Family and the Beauty of Broken


“The Prophet Jeremiah Mourning over the Destruction of Jerusalem.” Rembrandt van Rijn, 1630.

For we know that if the tent that is our earthly home is destroyed, we have a building from God, a house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens. (2 Corinthians 5:1)

Jeremiah is referred to as the weeping prophet because of the disheartening messages he delivered to the people of Israel and because of his poems in the book of Lamentations, which deal with the destruction of Jerusalem. However, God showed Jeremiah that no situation is irredeemable. No matter the defect, God remolded and reshaped the people of Israel into something useful and beautiful. All this occurred some 600 years before the birth of Jesus Christ.

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” (Jeremiah 29:11)

In the New Testament, the epistles of Paul echo many of the thoughts of Jeremiah.

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new. (2 Cor. 5:17).

Thankfully, today the Lord is here to work in our broken families.

In her book, The Beauty of Broken, Elisa Morgan reminds us that the family is an imperfect institution. Broken people become broken parents who make broken families.

Broken is normal and exactly where God wants us.

Over the years, Ms. Morgan’s family struggled privately with many issues parents face, including alcoholism and drug addiction, infertility and adoption, teen pregnancy and abortion, divorce, homosexuality, and death.

It’s all overwhelming; but there’s hope for parents to grow and thrive with God.

Powerfully, she tells us, there’s no such thing as a perfect family. In one way or another, we all end up in broken families. Even God’s family was broken beginning with Adam and Eve.

God knows we are wayward. He’s not calling us to a life where everything looks perfect on the outside. He’s calling us to the other side of brokenness, because he loves us — the broken.

Hope and healing come when we discover that God accepts the beauty in our brokenness, and our Savior can remold and reshape his people into useful, beautiful creations.

The key is to be “in Christ”.

Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know. (Jeremiah 33:3)